Hello, I'm here because probably just like you, I desire more out of my sex life than the same old, "vanilla" sex and want to meet people here who have the same interests and desires. I am a professional but laid back, clean cut, 37 y.o. sexy, fun, and hansome bi-guy. I am about 5' 7" tall with short dark hair, brown eyes, and a trimmed goatee. I have more of a "football player" build with wide shoulders, large chest, and muscular legs and arms. I'm not bulging with muscles and not as tone as I'd like to be but I do try to keep in shape and good health since my career demands it but I have some "areas" I am working to improve. I have been told I am very attractive by more than a few people but I understand looks are in the eye of the beholder and I like to be modest and just think I'm decent looking. I consider myself an intelligent, understanding, compassionate, and very open minded per with a level head on his shoulders and good sense of humor. I am not judgmental of others nor of what they are interested in or believe in. I like to be friendly with everyone I meet and really like knowing people for who they are and their interests. I am the type that most people get very comfortable around quickly and feel they can simply open up to. Hanging out with friends and having a couple beers carrying on a good conversations is the kind of guy I am. I just enjoy having people feel good and at ease around me. Now, sexually speaking, I am as diverse as there are different people in the world. I'm not one to not try something at least once and I will twice for good measure. To me, life is about experiences and memories. I want to enjoy sex to it's fullest with like minded people or share it with like minded woman. Even though I am bi, I have no romantic interest in other guys. I only like the physical aspect of it. I have had experiences in the far past with couples and just with another guy and enjoyed it all, but I do prefer being with a couple the most or simple the MMF scenario. I love sharing a woman with another man seeing her really let herself loose in the moment and be the center of attention. It's a huge turn on for me to see a woman so liberated and freely enjoy her sexuality. I am more of a "giver" than a "receiver" when it comes to sex and is probably why I love to be very oral for both. I also like a lot of dirty, naughty talk. Also, the kinkier you are the better, I love a dirty mind. Basicly, I have a lot of hot, erotic fantasies I want to explore with the right minded couple or woman. I'm not looking for a one time hook up. I would like to build a lasting friendship or relationship because I believe that the sex only gets better with people whom you get to know well. I'm the type of guy that you can just enjoy hanging out with and having a few drinks with as a friend, tell me all your fantasies or even problems and never feel judged, but with great benefits. Outside the "bedroom" I'm a very normal and straight kind of guy. A manly man you might say. Confident, secure, and friendly type of per. I enjoy the outdoors, boating, hiking, motorcycling, movies, and just hanging out with friends. I feel pretty lucky to be living my dream job so I'm very passionate about it. I do have s and spending time with them is the most important thing for me. I like to be social and can talk with someone for hours. Not much into sports though but can sit and watch a game with friends. I guess sex is really my favorite contact sport! I am currently separated and it's not a bad thing filled with drama. We just don't seem to want the same things and just lost the love over the years and feel it's best to move on and doing it peacefully with respect toward one another. I don't use drugs, I practice good peral hygiene, and I'm absolutely disease free. I've had a vasectomy a couple years ago so I'm shooting blanks and a lot of it! I have a very flexible schedule due to my work and can get together for fun "adult" times or just to hang out with like minded people just about anytime with some planning.

My Ideal Person I am truly and foremost looking for a friendly, sexually open minded, and fun person that I can relate to and is accepting of my bisexuality. I have so many things I want to do sexually and there's not much that I won't try with the right person. I would like to meet a couple or preferably a woman that I can just be myself with.
The couple should be bi or at least be comfortable that I am. She should be very open to the whole MFM thing and for the guy, he should be too and also OK that I am bi even though nothing has to happen between us unless it's desired. I like couples that are laid back, easy going and friendly. Also, a couple that is very secure with their relationship and want to add more "spice" to their sex life and not drama. I'm not out to get involved with someone else's wife or girlfriend. It's just not my thing. It's just sex and friendship only. I prefer everyone to be involved and having fun.
For meeting a woman, I like for her to be very open minded, bi or OK that I am and like that about me, love sex, able to openly talk about it. I would like to meet a woman that is interested in me for possible friendship with maybe potential for more. But, open to exploring our sexuality with others preferably in MMF threesome or more! Especially like a woman who has a desire for black men as well. HEY! it's a fetish and I have a right to what I like too! I'm not looking to get involved in a serious relationship right away but open to possibilities.
I'm not concerned with age, looks, or race so much as your personality and open mindedness. I do prefer someone who is in decent shape and somewhere near my age or older.

Now, if you aren't interested in any of this and it's not your thing, no problem. Then you're not who I am looking for but I'm sure you will find what you want on here, that's what I'm trying to do. I'm not the "hottest" guy on here but I am for real and one of the most "fun" you will find. So, please respect that and if you are truly interested in getting to know me then send me a message. I reply to all. Thanks and look forward to meeting you!

Tell one of your favorite sexual fantasies. Don't hold back!:
Have way to many favorites to list. Being cuckolded or just
sharing a woman with another guy or guys seems to always
top my list.

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
I'm willing to try just about anything.

What factors are most important to you when looking for a sexual partner?:
Willingness to freely discuss and try anything

Ever fantasized about having sex with a celebrity? Who? What turns you on about them?:
Not really. More turned on by normal everyday people you
would meet in public. Especially the sexy

Have you ever had cybersex?:
I've tried it, but it's just not the same.

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